“NEVER leave the one you love for the one you Like.. Because the one you Like will leave  you for the one they love…”

That pretty much explains it all. Many young people try so hard to be in a relationship, but then once they’re in a good relationship we get bored because there isn’t as much excitment as chasing someone of the rush of crushing.

In a way, we aren’t actually looking for relationships, just the excitement. And, by doing so we tend to miss out on the best people that will be there for you and care about you the most. Which is what we all really want deep down. Take your time in relationships so no one gets ‘bored’, and just cherish the time! You’ll have amazing friends and relationships. Plus memories to cherish forever! (Instead of someone you’ll forget about within a few years.)

Have you ever felt like something was on your mind, but you don’t know what? That’s the problem with me the majority of the time when I’m bugged or in a certain mood I can’t seem to figure out why I am. And, when I do know I can’t seem to find the correct words to explain it to people.

 

People expect me to be able to explain myself: my actions, words, feelings, and moods. Yet, how can I do that when I don’t even know myself?! Another problem, I sometimes expect people to automatically know what’s wrong with me, and I get more annoyed when they don’t. I’m not sure why I act like that, but I try not to. Just at times my extinct come out, and I can’t control my emotions and actions very well. =/

 

They’re maybe many reasons as to why I act this way. Some people may blame my high emotions on the fact that I’m a Scorpio, others would just say it’s the way I’ve been raised, and yet, I think it’s just the way my brain and emotions operate, NOTHING else. Unfortunately, that means I’m the only one responsible for those actions, and I’m also the only one who can change them. Which involves a lot of work and self-discipline. Hopefully, though, I can change myself for the better, and maybe even finally understand my motives.

 My point of this being, to help encourage people with similar problems, that you’re not the only one with that problem. And, you can try and fix it. Though, it may be hard, just try it’s for the best. And, maybe even you will be able to find your true self.

Change- v. – 1. to make a difference 2. to exchange: to change places. 3 to give or get foreign money in exchange for 4. to remove and replace the coverings or garments of 5. to become different 6. to make an exchange 7. to transfer between conveyances 8. to put on different clothes

 

Why is it that people don’t like change? I heard from a wise man today that people are afraid of failure, and with that they are also afraid of change. Change is doing something new and they fear they won’t be good at it. That is why people don’t like or fear the concept of change.

 

The technology world is ALWAYS changing. Look at the inventory for I-pods, Mp3s, computers, TVs, and even radios! With all this new technology offered to us it causes the work force to change. New jobs available that weren’t even around 10-30-50 years ago, and also some jobs aren’t available any more. But, with all these new jobs the skill and knowledge to get them is also changing.

 

Now, with the increasing amount of knowledge people need to get these new jobs, our school systems are also evolving and changing. Another, reason school systems are different from before is due to recent studies that prove and help test different learning methods. The Educational Career is always changing in order to better do it’s job; which is to educated future generations in order to be prepared for their lives and future.

 

How we teach our youngest generations is Vidal to future society! And, if one took the time to think about it; with all these new demands the same teaching methods aren’t going to help prepare these children for their future because that method was created to help prepare for what is now their present. Resulting in the need for new teaching methods or the building/ further developing to better suit the demands for each generation.

 

All this change in our World today just keeps continuing, and if people aren’t willing to accept it; then they are SOL because the World can’t slow down for them because they “don’t want to do it.” People need to learn that when it comes to it change is unavoidable; you may be able to run from it but you can’t HIDE!

 

Now, I only used this as an example due to my aunt’s constant annoyances with her career at the moment and the ignorance of her colleagues by resisting change in their careers. But, this whole blog is really related towards any change.

 

You either embrace change or you’re the creator of your own problems! =/

My name is Colleen. I’m 16, but wise for my age. I am not perfect, but I am confident in my strengths. I have a temper issue, but I am compassionate. I can be nervous, but I’m very out going. I’m smart, but I’m not a kn0w-it-all. I like sports, but not to into athletics. I love music, but can’t write it. I like guitar, but can’t play much. I belive in much, but sometimes not myself. I’m laid back, but get paranoid easily. I’m a bitch at times, but generally friendly. I’m flirty, but not a skank. I’m different, but not werid. I’m a dork, but not a geek. I like boys, but I’m in love with Ben <3 . I like to write, but can’t spell. I can be shy, but once i start talking I can’t shut-up. I’m bored a lot, but easiely amused. I’m tired, but can’t sleep…. thats all for now on this topic. =]

Any teenagers? maybe even just remembering that point in time? Well, why is that we always have those moments where we just have a rush of different emotions. Mostly thinking about the following:

-The fast lane     – falling    – alone    – needy    – unknown

+ Some days we just feel our life is going to fast. We have no control. School, chores, homework, sleep, exc. We live in the fast lane. Emotions, school, and our general life; everything happens all at once and we never know what to excpect. We just feel like we need to have things to calm down, and just take control again. Stopping to hang out with friends or catch up on our favorite TV shows.+

+ Then, there is the time when we have the rush of the falling feeling. Our life is a down fall of emotions where they just snowball into a huge problem. One thing after another. Nothing can every go wrong without another problem after it esculating the delema. =[ +

+ THe times we crave others attention a) the opposite sex b) friends or c) popularity. I don't understand why some days we feel completely independt and comfortable with who we are, how we are, and what we do. but, then things change and we feel we despritely need people.+

+ Days we are completly satisfied, but then others we feel our needs aren't complete. We excpect them to be filled by people, yet, we don't know what we want or need. So, how do we excpect anyone to help us? We can't control it though. =/ +

+ Then there are days we just feel like crap. For no reason. It's very confusing. +

why are there so many emotions involved in growing up? not to mention there are many more that I haven't written about. (i have no time to write them all out) I wish to think that they go away, but sadly I don't think they do. Yet, grow to become more complicated. That's why we have friends and family to keep us alive. =] yay!

 Colleen`