This may sound corny or you may think it is wrong, but it’s how I feel. And also is a healthy relationship and a good one. I really think that the best way to start a new relationship is to act like it’s the first one. Don’t compare this person to previous people you’ve been with. because everyone is different, and every experience with a new person will be different, too. Act like it’s the first time for everything, even if it’s not. Because every experience is a new one, and it is the first time with this NEW person. Give them a clean slate. And, an open mind. Just because they are different doesn’t mean they aren’t good. Another, point to my theory is: that why rush a relationship to a point where your last one was? because then you miss all the memories of getting there. And also, you rush a relationship it’s easier to get hurt! All I really want is someone I can start new with and take it as it comes. And, someone that I can enjoy myself with and to have new experiences. And I think Ben is a good example of a good boy friend. and I’m so glad that I found him!!!! Wish you the best of luck. 
Ben&Colleen
07-05
<3 Colleen`
“Everyone must leave something behind when he dies. something your hand touched some way so your soul has somewhere to go when you die, and when people look at that you’re there.” -Ray Bradbury-
My main goal in life is to be happy and make a difference somehow. If I could fine a profession that could full-fill both of these I would feel extremely full-filled and accomplished.
But, there are many different ways to make a difference. In what you do, create, or who you influence. These things add to the world, and show the person who helped change them.
If everyone did something positive to add to the world, at least ONE thing. Then the would would be a much better place.
The people who sit around, do nothing, and who are selfish. Aren’t the people who get remembered. It’s the people who do something important, it’s the people who touch lives, the people who make a difference; those are the ones that are remembered through out generations. Those are the people who are admired and who truly know whats important. These are the people who make a difference and are truly happy.
There recently has been a conclusion that there hasn’t been a “new” or unique thought in over several decades. THis is a result of the smount of humans on the Earth and some people think all the ideas have been throught of. But, I completly disagree! For two reasons:
One
If a person has never heard a specific idea. Then wouldn’t that be considered a unique thought? Just because it may have been thought about before, doesn’t take away the amaaing ability of the human brain to question things and come to a conclusion for their own.
TWO
If there hasn’t been a new thought in over a few decades then why do we constantly have such new techology advances? We have new books being published, new plays, movies, and shows being produced, new bands making albums, and new artists creating work. Though much of these thigns may have been inspired by prevous things; they are still now! I bet the majority of those thigns created are there own, and there no clones of them.
Individual thought is a very rare and important thing to society. And, it will always be. As long or people keep developing and thinking for their own.
“NEVER leave the one you love for the one you Like.. Because the one you Like will leave you for the one they love…”
That pretty much explains it all. Many young people try so hard to be in a relationship, but then once they’re in a good relationship we get bored because there isn’t as much excitment as chasing someone of the rush of crushing.
In a way, we aren’t actually looking for relationships, just the excitement. And, by doing so we tend to miss out on the best people that will be there for you and care about you the most. Which is what we all really want deep down. Take your time in relationships so no one gets ‘bored’, and just cherish the time! You’ll have amazing friends and relationships. Plus memories to cherish forever! (Instead of someone you’ll forget about within a few years.)